The Enclave BDSM Club, Fetish, Leather, Denver Colorado

From Michael:

I've been hearing some gossip once again. Some of the same old
stuff, some new stuff. Figured it's time for some "spring cleaning"
again so here's the scoop on some of the misinformation you might
have heard floating around:

Asphxyia play
- that means we don't choke people out until their eyes
roll back in their heads or they pass out
That doesn't mean that I've never grabbed deb by the
throat during a scene until her face turned red. Just
that it's purpose wasn't asphyxia and it was, say,
a minute instead of three or four. Context matters.

Fluids/scat/etc.
- that means we don't do piss, scat or bloodletting as a
scene.
That doesn't mean that there's never been someone cut or
abraded to the point of drawing blood during a scene,
only that it wasn't the purpose of the scene and once
blood was drawn they paused to cover/contain the blood
to protect others from any accidental exposure to it.
More of a hygeine thing than anything else.

Fireplay
- that means we don't actually set folks on fire.
(which sucks, because I like to watch fireplay)
Fire code in a commercial building requires open flame
to be regulated. We just haven't gotten to the part
about demoing for the Fire Marshal and getting the
OK for true fireplay, fire flogging, etc. Eventually,
we'll clear that hurdle, but for now, the only open
flame we use is lighting a cup for fire cupping and
lighting a candle for waxplay.

SEX
- We don't do insertions during a scene. We don't allow
oral contact with genitals or anus. We don't allow
genital to genital contact. We don't masturbate folks
for it's own sake. You know, sex.
That doesn't mean that we don't get naked. Or that we
don't touch breasts, butts or crotches. Only that we
do so in a bdsm context, not a purely sexual one.
For example: Tugging on a crotchrope for a few seconds
is probably bdsm...whereas wankin' someone off with
a crotchrope for minutes on end would probably be sex.
Licking and sucking at a nipple would probably be sex.
Biting, twisting, etc, would probably be bdsm.
Squeezing a cock until the guy cried would probably be
BDSM. Stroking the shaft would probably be sex.
Back to that context thing. That might all seem a bit
vague, but we're not looking to put 200 rules in place
defining every specific thing that might happen. We're
giving you the idea, the intent, and expecting folks to
try to maintain the lines between sex and bdsm.


There might be a few other specific things we disallow at
this time, but I can't think of them offhand. If you're wondering
about a particular scene, just ask and we'll figure out how we can
accomodate you. That's pretty much the gist of our restrictions.
From what I've seen at clubs I've attended, it's
not that far from "standard".